Thursday, March 18, 2010

Why kids are overweight nowadays.. it sort of figures considering..

They were saying that kids being overweight is the norm, now, not the exception, but that sort of figures.

When we were kids, there were no computers, or even video games til we got into high school.. so most of our playtime, involved being outside, building forts, play hide & go seek, tag, something physical, but now.. what kids do for fun, is mostly inside stuff.
And the parents, they always are chaufferring their kids from one place to another, while we had to walk to the store, to our friends' house, etc, to SCHOOL even!

Geez now the kids are SO SO sheltered and SPOILED! It makes sense they have gained weight they shouldn't have. I've got NOTHING against being overweight but it does have an effect on your heart, your health sometimes.

Well, they are BLAMING the food they kids eat.. well, perhaps part of that is right, but more so.. it's the fact that kids no longer WALK like they used to!

Towns won't even build sidewalks anymore! You go look at an older neighborhood, built in the 50s or 40s, or even the 60s and 9 times out of 10, they had SIDEWALKS!

But now, the towns don't want to BOTHER with sidewalks.. So no wonder the parents are forced to drive their kids everywhere, there is NOWHERE safe to walk in town anymore. there's NO SPACE for pedestrians to safely walk on!

I know the same is true in our town.. We have places in the city limits and very few of them HAVE sidewalks, very few!

Only the older neighborhoods have them! That's a shame!

So MUCH for being green Asheville! You people are not GREEN! Just cuz you refuse to give out a plastic bag for customer's purchases doesn't make you GREEN!

You don't give a fig about the ecology, that's a crock! You just wanna make $$$ hand over fist here... I have YET to see what I see as a Green Movement!

One.. they had some houses, and I'll post a photo of this place, they build the houses on the EDGE OF A CLIFF! WHOA.. all their backyards, if you wanna call them that, involved, just a deck and a plunge of 200 feet over a cliff! Wow.. and I do believe there was a river beneath the cliff!

My word! I can just imagine if that structure underneath the house, starts to deteriorate.. what kind of danger that will post those families and the people who live in those houses, lives?

Eek! That's Asheville for you though. Full of weird people with weird ideas now! It used to be the opposite. lots of normal people, down to earth people with good ideas.. Not so much anymore..

You'd think they'd want to make lots of neighboods and shopping plazas with sidewalks so we could walk or bike safely to these places, but NOPE, they don't want to.
Nor do they have a very good bus system!

Gosh, even in Honolulu, which isn't a very big city. they got a GREAT bus system there. you can go almost anywhere anytime all over the island!
Nope, they want us driving cars! Lots of them! And how GREEN is that? How much pollution does that create? I tell ya.. lots and that's why we have so many trees dying of acid rainfall in the National Forests around here..

All that pollution is taking its toll. I just saw a story that they are going to be building rails in the eastern side of the state, but we need that here, in the western part of the state! I'm betting they WILL NOT bother to do that either! :(
Anyway, I'm surprised there are so many overweight kids now, but you consider that you spend your time, out of school, just sittin there playing video games or chatting on the net or just sitting there texting your buddies, how much exercise are you going to get?
And moms, don't bother to make home cooked meals much anymore, cuz most of them are working.

You start looking at all the chemicals in a microwaved meal and you'll be shocked! So many unpronounceable names of ingredients!

I feel bad for kids now, cuz so many woods and wildlife have been torn down before they were born. We always had woods to play in as kids, but now.. where you gonna find woods even?

That's "progress" they call it, but I don't find it very progressive OR Green! :(

the local news did not even MENTION it was St. Patrick's Day yesterday!

This is weird to me. I grew up in an area, 'swamped' by people of Irish descent. There were SO many Irish people when I grew up, in my region...Now, don't get offended. I love the Irish, most of my best friends were at least 1/2 Irish. I know how to say Kiss your Backside in Irish. I know most of their customs and ways of thinking. I think the Irish are wicked cool myself :)

And man.. they sure got a lot of nice looking guys from Ireland, that's for sure! Colin Farrell, while he may be a bit of a cad, sure is easy on the eyes, you gotta admit that! :) Liam Niason, another Irish actor, who's presence sure doesn't make me feel sad at all to be born a woman.. there are numerous Irish lads out there who are exceedingly handsome, that's for sure!

I think I'd probably love living in Ireland. And my favorite beer is IRISH, Guiness! Well, to think a city the size of Asheville does NOT have any St. Patrick's Day celebration. Even my favorite pub... whom I'll not mention cuz this IS the internet and I keep running into all these cyber-bullies lately... did not even OPEN for St. Paddy's day!

I said Happy St. Paddy's Day to two fellows yesterday! I don't really know them well, one is a neighbor, but another a black guy... and they both seemed pleased I would wish them that...

Gosh. what is WITH town anyways?
So strange! I have NEVER lived in a town that didn't actively celebrate St. Patrick's Day!

I was going to go out... but was so tired, and I'm so broke right now.. Instead I just bought some green M&Ms and thought about St. Patrick's Day, but I wonder if much was going on in town last nite...

I bet there wasn't . I went out last Saturday night! Oh, this is SUCH a party town! Not! I went into my favorite club and by 10:30 p.m. they were closing DOWN! Ten thirty on a SATURDAY night and you're closing your doors! Tried to go south of town but my god, there's hardly ANYWHERE to go that's decent!

Maybe I need to head in a different direction. who knows.... this is awful... The only good thing that happened was there was a rather cute guy standing outside, who later did a pretty good karaoke song in that place, but honestly, not much to offer in the way of entertainment.

It seems only the 20 somethings now go out to clubs.. What's up with that? I know in my 20s.. we really didnt go clubbing much, we'd go do lots of outside stuff, but when we wanted to have fun, we'd make our own fun! :) at home, or at our friends' house!

We lived on a remote spot in the Pacific so maybe that had something to do with it.. but we never really CRAVED going out to the clubs when I was in my 20s.. it was much more fun, just hanging out with your BF, or going to your friends' house and hanging out..

Now, it seems ALL the 20s somethings.. that's THEIR form of entertainment.. clubbing.. going out.. all dressed to the nines, or looking like the street walker down the in the bad part of town, texting...getting on "social networks" and printing all kinds of personal info & pictures about yourself.... I don't know.. I am SO glad I didn't grow up in these times.

I really feel sorry for the normal kids who gotta grow up in these times. It must be rough!

Anyway. I see poor Sandra Bullock has broken up with her husband Jesse! :( How sad! I like Sandra Bullock, I really do.. and to think her movie, Blind Side, I think it's called, has been SO successful, and now her SO is cheating on her.. what a bittersweet pill that must be to swallow!

You know though, when she first started seeing Jesse James, it just seems he was SO NOT her type! I don't know.. I'm not her.. so who am I to judge. but all the tattoos, his sort of tough guy stance. and she's so gentle, so classic looking. .. it just seemed like an odd match to me...
Maybe I was a bit pyschic, but I wouldn't imagine her sneaking around on her man, but yet, he thinks it's ok to do that to her.
At least she's got the smarts to ditch his ass.
I see that Tiger Wood's wife, has taken him back! Oh, dear, good luck with that woman! I hope she has gotten herself a host of STD tests to make sure he's not given her something she cannot get rid of..

You see, cheating now, is not just a heartbreak, it's life-threatening..... Aids, that still exists, they do NOT have a cure for that, yet,Herpes, you name it, there's a host of incurable illnesses out there you can catch if you got a wandering lover..

Not a good thing.. and speaking of lovers. I was so glad to see that I'm NOT the only one who's opposing this stupid law Arseville wants to pass, that insists the taxpayers of Arseville PAY for the health benefits of gay "partners".

Now I stopped to think this over, and IS there any law out there that pays for the health benefits of a man and woman living together? Or one that does that for them, if they have children either? I don't think so....
So WHY do gays get all these exclusive benefits? that seems discriminatory toward the straight people to me. Just think about it, do you know of a black couple, a man and woman, who are just living together, but their "partner" is entitled to receive Health Benefits from the town in which you live in?
That is simply ridiculous!

This nation or maybe I should say this world, has become truly twisted.. maybe all those predictions in the Bible are right!

That man will desire man more than women, and so on... it sure seems to becoming true in this town, sadly enough.

Hey if you are a lady, and even a good lucking lady, don't expect to come to Trashville and get laid one night when come to some nightclub here in town. Don't! You'll be disappointed over & over, more likely you'll have a parcel of lesbians looking you up and down and trying to get "friendly" with you.
That's SO creepy! :(

I noticed there is a man in town, Don Yelton, who's also opposed to the passing of that law for Gay "partners"! Good for him. and Mayor Bellamy, whom I'm going to send a postcard to soon, she's also saying WHERE is there a law like the one the gays are trying to ram down the throats of Arseville taxpayers, claiming that in Charlotte, the gay "partners" have to have THEIR health benefits paid for?

I mean, come on now. this is the absolute WORST recession, or probably depression, in history! And we can barely pay for our OWN BASIC living expenses, never mind paying for some fudge packer's health care?

I cannot even afford to go to a decent doctor now, even if I've been injured badly! WHY in heavens NAME, should I be forced to pay for someone who's PERFECTLY healthy and is able to HAVE SEX daily with their gay partner?


Go out there and get a fucking job for yourself gay "partners"! Cuz you SURE have a better chance of getting a job in the town of As$eville being GAY than you do if you are STRAIGHT, or over 40 or disabled or a certain minority! And you gay people are NO minority in the town of Arseville! They say that Arseveill is the THIRD GAYEST city in the nation! So.. taxpayers consider how many PEOPLE that will be you'll be footing the bill for! Quite a lot I'd say. Bad enough we have to pay FREE health care to illegal aliens who shouldn't be working here in the first place!

And the straight people, the over 40 people and the disabled people SURE are NOT being offered ANY kind of health benefits lately in their jobs! They are LUCKY they can even GET jobs nowadays!!!! :(

So piss off, gay "partners'. Man, have you people have a nerve!

I'm so SICK of this whole GAY agenda, I could puke!

Now, don't call me homophobic. I used to have a lot of gay friends. people who were considerate of others feelings, of straight people's feelings, but this new "breed" of gays.. forget it!
They are arrogant, selfish, hateful people

I have never been more discriminated against in a job than I was when I was working for two different gay guys at two different jobs!

That sucked! One boss even had the NERVE to make a LEWD remark about some cop patrolling our business once, a remark that if I had said in the presence of other straight people, I'd have been FIRED on the spot.
The cop walked by, a rather fit looking guy in his late 20s, and the BOSS, of all people comments. "Oh, I'd like him to CUFF me and STUFF me!"
I was shocked, as I was standing RIGHT NEXT to my boss, when he made that remark to another male gay employee!
Luckily that company is NOW out of Business! lol. Geez, I wonder why...
I was even assaulted by this gay guy once at work, and the company did NOTHING for me, the president of the company, even though I had visible black & blue marks from where the guy hit me, and the gay guy was OVER 6 feet tall! They didn't even pay for my damn medical expenses, so WHY am I EXPECTED to pay for the health "benefits" of some weird gay person????

That same gay man ALSO made numerous LEWD comments in front of over 15 women at work! That was OK, (yeah right!) cuz he was GAY!

So piss off you selfish gay people! You don't need any more "compensation" for being gay! This society has put you up on pedestals..

Cannot wait til you fall off, and come down to the earth with the rest of us... Then you'll see what it's REALLY like to be harassed and discriminated against!

You gay people are NOT being discriminated against! Not in any shape or form. You're being admired, given the right to create chaos and sexual harassment at work and numerous other social ills.
I have NO sympathy for you, and why should I?
I have sympathy for people who are BORN with disabilities, mental illnesses, they have NO control over, being harassed or persecuted cuz they are born a certain race or religion that many people despise or have hateful attitudes towards, THOSE people need health benefits not you!

As long as you don't come out of the closet, no one even KNOWS you are gay! You get to live whatever life you choose and then we have to REWARD you for such a disgusting, vile lifestyle!

Try covering up the fact you are black, or oriental, or of American Indian race or Jewish, or handicapped! That's a real challenge, trust me!

I'm not going to REWARD you people for your "alternative" lifestyel! You CHOOSE to be gay! No one forced it on you, (well, maybe you became gay after you seduced by some gay person, but still... you were NOT born that way!) I don't care about you people anymore! You have proved OVER & OVER you do NOT care about the straight people!

To expect the poor and I DO mean poor str8 people to foot the BILL for your decrepid lifestyle and your "partner" in such an awful economic time, is so revealing of your "true" character honestly! You are selfish, evil people, if that's your mindset!

I'm so glad I'm not gay! I really don't think anyone's BORN gay either. I've talked to many of my gay friends and it was always something weird or traumatic had happened to them that made them become gay!

I've also known people who were gay and then decided to become str8.. and then have children and were extremely happy! :)

So.. it's not like you don't have a CHOICE, like black people, hispanic people, disabled people, Oriental people or Jewish people who were BORN a certain race or with a certain physical handicap.

or, it seems in this town, IRISH people!

Now someone tell me WHY Arseville did NOT make a big deal bout St. Patrick's day.. I want to know? They didn't even mention it on the news yesterday!

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Cyber-bullies and Hypocrits, are they much different?

I find they are not! The cyberbullies ALWAYS want or EXPECT you to treat them with kid gloves, but god forbid you expect the same in return!

Wow.. I wrote a few days ago, about this one cyber-bully.. supposedly she's a mom (YES, she's an adult, how sad, huh?) and also a COLLEGE professor.
I'd like to find out just WHERE she works so I never apply to the school where she's working... creepy...
But cyber-bullies ARE creepy!

You might not say anything, because you don't want to incur their wrath, but silence is not always golden. If you keep your mouth shut and NEVER say anything to a bully, or even worse, a cyber-bully that only encourages them to keep on what they do best, harassing, intimidiating, insulting, and degrading others

And HOW is that considered a reputable person? Wow.. I'd like to send a copy of this woman's post to the place where she works, because she also said rude things about some of her students... That's sad.. geez, even locally I heard this one teacher was being punished for calling one of the students he had a loser! And that kid is not spending good money to be in school, while these students are!

That's odd, but it's good in a way.. that kids self-esteem are NOT something to be tossed around no more! I rather like that idea..... that being mean is not considered an OK thing!

Well, I think I can relate well to that scenario, cuz people are ALWAYS mean to me! It seems to be a way of life for them, to pick on someone they think they can get away with.. but you know.. that is the ONE good thing about the internet...

People can get OUT there, that there are bad people in the world, and warn others! I like that idea.. I always try to warn people if there's something hazardous out there.. I'm just that way..
Some people are, they look out for others, while others try to get away WITH harming other people.

Well, the world is made up of all kinds..
I'll continue this later.. I'll put in here what this witch I was talkig about was saying to people! Quite hypocritical, I tell you...
i'm off here for now..
adios.

Saturday, March 13, 2010

MY GOD, the cyber-bullies are like poisonous VENON on the Web!

I'm telling you, it's getting SO old now!

The amount of hateful vicious, vindicative a##holes who exist on the web, only to start flame wars, tearing someone to ribbons, they don't even KNOW!

I mean, really! Can you NOT find something better to do with your time???

The problem is, whenever I join a new forum, lately, even though it CLAIMS we are OBLIGATED to be RESPECTFUL to others, I end up being tossed about like some tennis ball, by some weird arse rude, deliberately abrasive, control freak CYBER BULLY!

I hate the internet, I'm really starting to! It's wasted SO much of my time, trying to defend myself against all these RUDE MOTHERFUCKERS!

I will probably create a blog on the website I'm speaking of, one day, but to day I'm not! They are weird as hell!

I did complain about them on another site though.. let others KNOW what kind of WITCH exists on their website, and then they can see if they will STILL get any business off it?

Hehehe.. you see, these moderators who DON"T moderate are often the cause of all the cyber-bullying!

It's sad.. it's like a town without any police where the crooks run rampant and the civil nice people, just don't bother to leave their houses!

I was just reading about some Ebay problems that were occurring, something about handbags and how the sellers, some of them, were gettin cut-throat b/c someone found out there were being fake purses sold!

Well, I can well see why I DON'T have a love for the internet, or a trust for it either! One guy actually was threatening one of the people involved and I foudn that downright creepy, saying watch out.. cuz we can google your home address... etc. etc.

which is WHY i'm very careful about WHAT I put out on the web! I do NOT like entering online applications for jobs either, and this one forum, was ALL about jobs!

So.. stop & THINK for a second. You got someone on there who thinks they OWN the place, they are a cyber-bully and are harassing all the newbies, BUT you got companies coming on there looking for help wanted, and these companies EXPECT you to enter ALL your personal info!

Whoa! And I'm REALLY going to do that???? I doubt it.. i'm not that stupid or foolish...cuz WHO KNOWS this cyber-bully could be best mates with one of the companies reps and then they screw you over royal, get all your personal info and there's identity theft involved.. or worse!
They were asking how many children you had, their ages, etc. That's WEIRD! What is the purpose of THAT if all you need me to do is work for you? You are not goin to let me bring in my children to work with me, are you?


Anyway.. i'm TIRED very TIRED of ALL the rude people I keep running into and having to deal with lately!
I'm NOT in the best health lately... but I'm sure not wanting to waste HOURS of my time fighting with some cyber-bully just cuz I ask a simple question on a forum!

GOD! I fucking HATE cyber-bullies!

You know, in reality, they are the WORST cowards that exist in the free world! They KNOW you wont' come after them, cuz they are hiding behind their little computer screeens, but if they said to you in real life what they say to you on a web page, then most likely you'd probably be wanting to slap them across the face!
And that's what they deserve! I HATE people who push innocent people around in real life!
I just saw this special on 20/20 where some parents had given birth to children who had schizophrenia! Wow.. never realized just HOW bad it was for the parents. they couldnt' even raise their children together!

They had a little baby boy and the little girl who was mentally ill would ALWAYS try to hit the baby! Oh, dear! That kind of explains alot of crime & murders, really!

My word, though, I felt SO bad for the parents.. all they had to deal with.. having a kid who was hostile and dangerous to be around.. that must suck so!

Sort of like having a mean dog in your house! I really always made it a point to get dogs with gentle natures! It's great to have a loving dog.

it's getting really GOOD between the dog and the cat now. The cat is now hanging out in the same room as the pup, boy, I jsut LOVE that!

She feels comfortable with him and is even eating her food in the same room he hangs out in alot! I'm so pleased! I love the fact the cat likes the dog and the dog LOVES HER! :)

It's sweet.. you see, I do complain about alot of stuff i know, but I'm bothered when I see a lack of love present between people, species, races, etc.. it's disturbing.

I am a peaceful person though I don't believe in taking anyone's shit! But... at the same point I don't go around causing shit for other people either!
I believe what comes around, goes around... I truly do.. You be mean to ppl all the time, it's gonna come back to haunt ya! For sure!
Okay, i'm off here. whew!